Pathways to Friendship

Building Belonging & Widening Circles of Relationships Since 2012

What is Pathways to Friendship?

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Pathways to Friendship, is a collaborative initiative on social inclusion between the Department of Developmental Services (DDS) and The Arc of Massachusetts.​

Our goal is to address the isolation and loneliness of people with disabilities through:

-Exploring the benefits of relationships between people with and without disabilities

-Providing information and resources to help individuals, families and community organizations engage in and sustain those relationships

 

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What We Offer:

 

We work throughout Massachusetts. Thanks to a generous grant from DDS, all our services are FREE!

Trainings

We offer a variety of trainings to staff, families, people with disabilities, and community members and organizations. These trainings focus on supporting friendship between people with and without disabilities and provide concrete tools and strategies for achieving this goal.

Our presentations use a variety of mediums, including video, and are co-presented by people with disabilities who share real-life experiences. Presentations can be modified depending on the interest or age of the audience and can be presented in-person or virtually. Trainings are also available in a Train-the-Trainer format for those interested in strengthening their capacity. Click here to see a list of our trainings: Presentation Descriptions

Short Term Consultation

Pathways to Friendship offers short-term consultation to:

Organizations:

Observe, review and provide suggestions for programs, staff trainings, job descriptions and strategic and organizational goals to ensure they support inclusion and friendship

Individuals/Families:

Meet with individuals/families once or twice to brainstorm and develop plans for building and supporting friendships in the community

Resource Sharing and Networking

We offer many opportunities to connect with others and to share resources:

-Join our Regional Inclusion Networks in the Southeast, Central/West and Metro/Northeast regions

-Participate in the Friendship Matchmaking Forums

-Access Resources and Tools on our website, including (among other things): Video stories of true friendships, Free, downloadable PowerPoints and Toolkits on how to create friendships where you live, learn, work, play and organize

Friendship Matters!

  There is nothing more human than our need for connection and relationships. Simply put, friendships make us happier, healthier and safer!

Maslow’s Hierachy of NeedsA graphic pyramid displaying Maslow's Hierachy of Needs, with needs ranging from physiological needs, safety needs, love and belonging, esteem, all the way up to self-actualization.

 

While all good relationships are part of a good life, far too often people with disabilities are limited to relationships with family members, support staff and others living with disability. This means both people with and without disabilities miss out on all the richness and benefits that come from befriending each other. We need to Widen the Circle of our Relationships!

 

 

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Upcoming Events

Join us at one of these upcoming events to increase your knowledge about Friendship and Inclusion!

-10/1, 10-11am: Metro/Northeast Inclusion Network Virtual Meeting

-10/14, 10-11am: Southeast Inclusion Network Virtual Meeting

-11/12, 10-11am: Central/West Inclusion Network Virtual Meeting

-SAVE THE DATE- June 3, 2027: Pathways to Friendship Annual Forum, The Verve Hotel in Natick

Multilingual Resources to Support Friendship and Inclusion

Join Our Regional Inclusion Networks

These virtual meetings focus on furthering inclusion within organizations and communities. They are a forum to share best practices, to network, and to learn from short presentations. All are welcome to join! There are currently three Regional Inclusion Network Meetings. See below for meeting dates and times and here is a flyer for the Regional Inclusion Networks.

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Southeast

Held the 2nd Wednesday of every other month from 10:00 – 11AM.

Meeting ID: 867 7478 6418

       2026 Dates:

-2/11/26

-4/8/26

-6/10/26

-8/12/26

-10/14/26

-12/9/26

Contacts: Dotty Foley at dfoley@arcmass.org, Erin Bose: ebose@arcmass.org

Sign up for our email list at this link: Southeast Inclusion Network Mailing List

Attend Meeting

Metro/Northeast

Held the 1st Thursday of every other month from 10:00 – 11AM.

Meeting ID: 811 4911 0266

2026 Dates:

-2/5/26

-4/9/26- 2nd Thursday of the month due to Passover

-6/4/26

-8/6/26

-10/1/26

-12/3/26

Contacts: Phoebe Goodman at goodman@arcmass.org, Rachel Hayward at rhayward@arcmass.org

Sign up for our email list at this link: Metro/Northeast Inclusion Network Mailing List

Attend Meeting

Central/West

Held the 2nd Thursday of every other month from 10:00 – 11AM.

Meeting ID: 863 9773 7679

2026 Dates:

-1/8/26

-3/12/26

-5/14/26

-7/9/26

-9/10/26

-11/12/26

Contacts: Rachel Hayward at rhayward@arcmass.org, Dotty Foley at dfoley@arcmass.org

Sign up for our email list at this link: Central/West Inclusion Network Mailing List

Attend Meeting

Grants For Community Organizations

Building Belonging Grant

Five people looking and smiling at each otherPathways to Friendship is partnering with 5 Family Support/Resource Centers and 10 community organizations serving non-English speaking communities to produce culturally and language-appropriate friendship-building resources and trainings.

2026-2027 Grantees:

The Friendship Spark Mini-Grant

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Pathways to Friendship is offering five $2,000 mini-grants to community organizations to fund programming that widens the circle of relationships so that people with and without disabilities connect.

2026-2027 Grantees:

Friendship Stories

Warren and Velvet: Like Peanut Butter and Jelly

Warren and Velvet have been friends for over 20 years. They have weathered life’s ups and downs together and have developed a bond deeper than friendship…they are family.

Chris and Tyler: Cheers to Friendship

With their outgoing personalities and shared love of afterschool activities, Chris and Tyler became friends in high school. Almost 15 years have passed, and these two are still best friends. They are always ready to talk to and support each other, and to enjoy each other’s company along with a good beer.

Sam and Jerry: The Thrill of Friendship

Sam was 8 and Jerry was 14 when they paired up at Loon Mountain. They ended up skiing together for the rest of the day, and for the next twenty years!

Jonathan and Mr. Stickney: A Slice of Friendship Heaven

Jonathan and Mr. Stickney bring out the best in each other. What started through pie, evolved into a wonderful friendship spanning 10 years!

Jordan and Laura: Actors and Friends

Jordan and Laura’s bond stemmed from a mutual love of acting. It has now grown into a beautiful 12-year friendship.

See More Friendship Stories Here!

Get Connected

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Do you have questions or want more information on Pathways to Friendship?

Contact us at friendship@arcmass.org

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